Does It Really Pay to Help Someone? (Transcript)
It seems that today, compared to days past, we are afraid to help someone in time of need. This was exactly how I felt a couple of winters ago, as I was heading down an icy road to a weeknight Bible study.
For some unknown reason, I stopped on my way to get $20.00 out of my ATM Machine even though I did not need any cash for the evening.
As I drove down McKinley Avenue, towards Elkhart, a car from behind my vehicle passed my driver’s side and the two automobiles in front of me.I muttered to myself: “Is that guy crazy?”
“These roads are so slick that only a real nut or drunk would take such a risk!”
“Can’t he see that everyone is traveling at a snail’s pace to avoid losing control of their cars?”
What was even more shocking was the sight of a child’s car seat visible through the rear window.
I thought to myself: “I hope that someone would not be that reckless with children in the car!”
I traveled on down the glassy road for approximately one mile and noticed that there was a car in the ditch on the right side of the highway with lights blinking and someone trying to dislodge the car.
The vehicle looked strangely familiar.
Then it struck me.
It was the same car that sped passed me just a few minutes ago.
In that brief moment, there were two thoughts that ran through my mind: I knew that this was going to happen, and what about the children?
I was already late to my Bible study, and I wanted to drive on.
I reassured myself that someone else would most likely stop and help.
But, my thoughts regarding my own needs quickly turned to guilt and hypocrisy.
How could I place the study of Christian principles above the act of Christian charity?
I was behaving just like the religious men in the story of the Good Samaritan, who passed the injured man on the road with little or no compassion.
I turned my car around and entered the driveway of an industrial complex and rolled down my window.
I cried out to the stranded motorist: “I am going to see if anyone in the building over there can help.”
He waved his hand, and I walked over to the manufacturing office.
A middle-aged woman was still working in the office, and she offered the use of a snow shovel.
I returned to the young man and tried to help him dislodge his car.
No matter how much we dug and pushed, the car would not budge.
I was grateful, however, that there were no other occupants in the vehicle and that he was not injured.
As we made our last futile attempt to push against the vehicle, a truck stopped, and the truck driver yelled out: “Do you need some help?”
The young man and I replied in unison: “Yes!”
The truck driver hitched up a chain to the rear bumper of the immobile vehicle and moved his truck forward.
The car was pulled free from the ditch in a matter of moments.
The truck driver jump out of his vehicle, and instead of saying: “I am glad I could help.”
He said to the young man: “That will be twenty dollars.”
The young man replied: “I don’t have any money on me.”
At that moment, I remembered that I had twenty dollars from the ATM machine.
Without a word being spoken, I dug into my pocket, and I handed the money to the young man.
He paid the truck driver and turned to me and said: “Please write-down your name and address so, that I can send the money to you.”
I began to write-down the information that he requested, all the while thinking that I would never see the money again.
I put the paper into the young man’s hand, and he began to stare at it for a while.
He looked up, and smiled, and said: “I think I know you.”
“Do you have a twin brother named Mike?”
I was surprise that this complete stranger would know my brother’s name and even know that he was my twin.
I replied: “Yes, my brother’s name is Mike, and how do you know him?”
The young man smile again and said: “I’m your brother’s boss.”
The old maxim which states that it is better to be safe than sorry does not always apply.
Sometimes, we have to take a chance and listen to that inner voice and help someone in need.
Sometimes, we need to open our hearts, open our wallets and give of ourselves.